If you drive your car on the road and get into an accident, that might be an accident.
If you drive the same car on the same road and get into another accident the very next day, there might be something wrong with the car. If you drive a new car on the same road and get into yet another accident on the third day, you might still get a benefit of doubt that perhaps, just maybe, there is something wrong with the road.
However, if you drive a new car on a new road and get into the fourth accident for four consecutive days, it's time for the driver to wonder if there might be something wrong with the driver!
If a pattern is constantly repeating in your life, there is a message for you. Lessons in life will always be repeated until they are learned. Also, bear in mind what Albert Einstein reminded us: "We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them."
The inconvenient truth is, when you keep repeating a mistake, it is no longer a mistake. It is a decision.
There are no "invisible" forces blocking you from the greater success for a better life, the life of your dreams, a life worth fully living.
Outcomes are not in your control, but what is in your control is effort and your intentions.
You are the only person responsible for your happiness and success. Prioritise yourself. You are not an option.